I am going to an undisclosed tropical location next month (lol) and I want to relax and not worry about covering my body. This has been my dangling carrot since August and has been extremely helpful in keeping me on track and not letting me give up. I am very much a product of all of my father’s bribery and ‘challenge’ style of parenting. I need incentives for everything.
Maybe you aren’t going on vacation, but there’s this activity that you want to be able to do, or a dress in your closet that you miss….